I dry heaved the first time I had to do a cold call. Professional networking events completely freaked me out. And approaching women? Hell, it was hard enough to get myself out of the house.
I dry heaved the first time I had to do a cold call. Professional networking events completely freaked me out. And approaching women? Hell, it was hard enough to get myself out of the house.
Growing up, I was the definition of unpopular. The boys beat me up, well into high school. The girls laughed at me, teased me, and messed with me.
My dad hated seeing me go through this, for sure… but he had a messed up childhood of his own, and didn’t really know how to communicate with me.
I still remember sitting by myself in the cafeteria during lunch, burning with embarrassment, and eating as fast as I could to escape the stares and taunts.
I stayed in weekends, played guitar and video games, and shut myself off from the world.
I didn’t understand how other people made friends so easily, because I just didn’t “fit in.” And I hated getting rejected… it reminded me of what a loser I was.
I knew I was missing out on the best that life had to offer.
But when I hit my twenties and tried to start a business, I had to stop making excuses.
And of course, I didn’t want to be alone forever. I knew that if I wanted a girlfriend, I’d have to… you know… talk to some girls.
So what changed? How did I overcome my social anxiety and become able to talk to anyone?
Well, I went to a few psychologists, but all we did was talk about my feelings and childhood.
That didn’t help much, to be honest.
Then one day, at a venture capital conference, I saw a guy who had it.
He radiated charisma. He was alpha for sure, but not like… some dominant jerk.
“I’m terrified of talking to people. I’m terrified to even be here and telling this to you. I try my best to act confident, but I think people see through me. And my social anxiety is holding me back from everything I want in life. You make it look so easy to talk to people. Will you help me?”
He look at me with the kindest eyes, and considered his words.
“I’ve never thought about what I “do” when I’m talking to people… it always came naturally. But…you seem like an honest kid, so tell you what: if you can stay a few feet back and don’t get in the way, you’re welcome to follow me around today, and watch me talk to people. Maybe you’d pick up a few ideas. Would you like that?”
And that day was the start of a years-long friendship. He became my counselor and mentor. The big brother I’d never had.
It wasn’t long before I was cold calling investors and sales prospects with easy confidence. I raised millions of dollars for my business, and it was eventually sold to another company in Silicon Valley.
I then went on to start several other businesses, and while there were some ups and downs, I was a multimillionaire by the age of 32.
And none of it would have been possible if I’d stayed in my shell.
I also started having a lot of fun with women. I had some great relationships in Michigan, then I moved to New York and dated a few models, including a girl who’s been on the cover of countless magazines.
Last year, I got married to a Brazilian model-turned-entrepreneur, who’s even a better woman than she is beautiful.
In fact, my mentor saw my wedding photos on Facebook. We’d fallen out of touch, but he sent me the nicest email…
He congratulated me for all the success, wished me lots of love, then said…
I’ve assembled these five techniques into a course called Talk To Anyone: Overcoming Shyness and Social Anxiety.
And I want to send you these life-changing techniques over the next five days, in your email.
One thing though: you can probably tell I’m not all about the “flash.”
I’m actually a pretty private guy. I don’t stage photoshoots of myself with a bunch of women and Lamborghinis because, well… that’s not real. If you see a photo of me, it’s straight from my life.
I’m an introvert, and that hasn’t changed since I learned these techniques. So I’m fine if someone else wants to hog the spotlight.
They’re the techniques that gave me the power to talk to anyone, and gain access to all the best things that life has to offer.
So it’s my honor to share them with you. You’ll get the first one delivered to your inbox right now.
No spam, no funny business… just good stuff for good men, who want a good life. If that’s you, then let’s get going.
Catch you in the inbox,
Christian Hudson
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